A Baptism and Birthday Celebration!

Hey there Hey,

Good Morning and Happy Friday! It's still a bit too early to know what the weather is like on my side of the Empire, but I predict a nice breezy day that will allow us to finally welcome the fall season. (crossed fingers) Anyhoot, it's been a pretty busy week for the whole family but in spite the rush and chaos that can come from our day to day living routine we always manage some how to come together and celebrate as a family. (a true commitment from the heart we promised to one another) In this post I have the privilege of sharing not one but two special birthdays and a baptism! Triple Whammy!!! Talk about Joy!!!

Both my Hubby and Son share a birthday which landed on Monday, 9/23/13, this year, so we went with Sunday, 9/22/13, which was the day that my husband and MIL were scheduled to be baptized. I swear that I have been praying for this day since forever and while I might have wanted it to happen a lot sooner I know that now was the perfect time for it to finally happen. I have learned to be patient and trust in my Lords time! I am truly excited to see what plans he has for my family and grateful to feel like certain pieces are finally becoming aligned. It is so true when they say GOD always 1st, (& in putting HIM 1st you are putting YOU 1st), Family 2nd and then the rest just has a funny way of playing out perfectly.

It was a very emotional day for me as I have been married to my Kahuna for 8 years now. We have been through so many milestones together both good and very bad and I feel as if we have grown up together. I don't know if I am expressing it correctly but it's like a special bond of friendship. A code of honor to one another and at this particular moment nothing else mattered but being able to share such a memorable experience side by side in spite any differences or mishaps. It was a right here and right now kind of moment.  He was declaring his commitment to the LORD and I was there to support and cheer him on!!! Made me feel almost teenage like. LOL You know when the hormones are just starting to mature but still overwhelming at the same time. (yeah! I'm blushing) And, just to add the icing on my cake along with sprinkles and a cherry, being able to share with my son on his birthday in celebration of his growth and progress makes me such a proud and honored Mother. It makes me feel blessed and truly happy!!! Hey it was a weekend that allowed me to celebrate LIFE!!! I want weekends like this all of the time. (crossing fingers & toes for this one) (wink, wink)


Here are some pictures I was able to take of such a special day! Wish I would've taken more pics. There were some of us that were not able to join us but we know were there in spirit and in heart!

What is Autism?

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Hope everyone is doing fine today. It's a sunshine and rain kind of day on my side of the Empire. Funny how lately the weather has been in sync with my mood. Today I can say that although I feel the rain, I am hopeful and will stand strong in my faith that the light (sunshine) within me will continue to shine bright! - Amen to that- Wop Wop Wop Wop Wop OK OK let me stop. Hey I was never lying when I said I crack myself up at times. I think of this image when I say WOP! If you haven't seen it, check it out on VINE or YouTube.com. You will never ever see WOPPING the same again! (literally cracking up)



Anyway, today I would like to share with you a question that a friend asked me and the response I gave her. She asked me, "What is Autism?" After she text me with her request she wrote: "I am going to pick at your brain!".... Shoot she sure done did! (eyes wide open) My friend Adasis is back in school and currently taking an ASD Endorsement class. Her professor asked them to get a parents point of view of what Autism is and/or means to them? Of course she would ask me. I have a 4, almost 5 year old Autistic son. I have mentioned him in a couple past post, but this question that picked at my brain sparked a desire to want to share more with you guys. I am going to post as much as I can about my journey with Autism and all the insightful information I come across. If we communicate more we will become more aware and can truly help to better, not become bitter.

So back to my answer. And let me add that I went back and forth and back, forth and then from here to there and so on and so forth. LOL I wanted to express the perfect answer and well that just doesn't exist. With Autism and it's broad spectrum, we all encounter different situations with it. The answer I chose to go with was my first instinctive answer and that is the one I would like to share with you. It is from my experience and my point of view. It is my TRUTH. If this helps in any way, then I feel that I am slowly but surely taking steps towards my desire to serve and in doing so I could only hope that I am living out my life's purpose. Please be encouraged to share and post a comment! Lets combine our pieces and make life's puzzle together.


MY interpretation of Autism.....

WHAT IS AUTISM?

What is Autism? Well since 1943 it's been known to be a variable developmental disorder that appears by age of three and is characterized by impairment of the ability to form "normal" social relationships by impairment of the abilities to communicate with other and by stereotyped behavior patterns. And, in 1992 they added presence of repetitive behaviors and/or restricted interest. 

Do you even understand that? I mean is this answer even enough? I feel like it's just a label being used to help give us comfort. I guess if we feel we have an explanation or medical terms of use for it, we can cope with the differences that they have compared them to what is considered the "norm", which what is the "norm" now in day?!? To me there are some things better dealt with if just accepted. I leave it up to my FAITH.

To me Autism is freedom. It is unconditional love. It's compassion. It's not having to tie down to all the limitations we constrict ourselves too. It's being pure. It's being untainted by societies ways, stereotypes and judgement. It's feeling wholeheartedly with no influences. It's genius and has its way with technology and visual perks that unfortunately us as "normal" cannot see nor understand. It's speaking on a different wave length. It's an every day challenge with no competition only progress. It's a new way of acceptance. It's a new perspective to this "normal" life. 

I started dealing with Autism since the day he was born and didn't even know it. He was 18 months when curiosity sparked the question of Autism. By the time he was 24 months he was diagnosed with Autism and what a great journey it has been since. Even with the downs. Hey it's the only way to go up! Autism is a blessing to my family and has brought my family together in more than many ways. I am blessed and truly honored that I was trusted with such a special being. I learn so much each day and grow from it, that to me its a sacrifice that's worth every second. I gain such fulfillment in every progress he makes. He is a special unique piece to the puzzle we all know as LIFE. Autism is my baby boy!

xoxo

Spoken For / Mercyme

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Hope all is well. Still same on my side of the Empire. With all the feelings I mentioned yesterday, I wanted to share a song I just heard that touched my heart. Sometimes I am at loss for words and the right music with the right words help me to connect. I was able to close my eyes and feel the words coming right out of my heart..... Sometimes I find myself in dark places throughout my Journey, but my faith is strong and I am learning how to accept not knowing, and that's OK.

Word Of God Speak Lyrics

I'm finding myself at a loss for words

And the funny thing is it's okay

The last thing I need is to be heard

But to hear what You would say

Word of God speak

Would You pour down like rain

Washing my eyes to see

Your majesty

To be still and know

That You're in this place

Please let me stay and rest

In Your holiness

Word of God speak

I'm finding myself in the midst of You

Beyond the music, beyond the noise

All that I need is to be with You

And in the quiet hear Your voice

Word of God speak

Would You pour down like rain

Washing my eyes to see

Your majesty

To be still and know

That You're in this place

Please let me stay and rest

In Your holiness

Word of God speak

Word of God speak

Would You pour down like rain

Washing my eyes to see

Your majesty

To be still and know

That You're in this place

Please let me stay and rest

In Your holiness

Word of God speak

I'm finding myself at a loss for words

And the funny thing is it's okay

Mercy Me - Word Of God Speak Lyrics | MetroLyrics 

xoxo

"I'm Late, I'm Late..." For What?!?

Hey there Hey,

I am hoping everyone is having a great day today. The weather on my side of the Empire is totally resembling my feelings today. One minute it's cloudy and another sunny. Muggy, then dry. Hot and then cold. Sheesh. Part of me is hoping this is a hormonal thing although I really do know what the problem is. The human in me is acting out today! LOL My feelings are all over the place and I kind of feel desperate for some reason. I know what I want and know what I need to do but today it feels so out of reach that I feel a bit hopeless. I mean am I really doing what I know "I need to do"?!? Do I even really know what "that" even is?!? That is the true question and well when you step back and look at your own life and see the outcome so far, makes you think sometimes if you really have been on track and doing what you are suppose too. I speak for myself when saying this, even though I am most sure a lot of you can relate.

Then.... I get confused cause I strongly believe in the notion of being right where we are suppose to be each and every second of the day, that there is a purpose for all. (why do I have to be so stubborn) So it kind of makes you wonder why the heck and what the heck? Could it be that the path that I have been seeing all along isn't at all or no where near the path that has been written for me?  But wait, I thought I was the author of my own book? I thought I was the one writing the pages. Do you see my confusion? I guess it all depends the way we choose to perceive it. UGHHH (shake my head) I just want to let go and let GOD already, but how do we really do that if we have to make our own choices and what if our choices aren't properly aligned with HIS. OH boy!!! I am going in circles again. Blah Blah Blah.... OK I get it! I get it!

I told you my human was acting out today, LOL Sometimes I just need to let this all out and bring myself back to my center, right where my Jesus is. If I was to truly continue disciplining myself to meditate and seek daily, be still and in tune with myself, I know I will find the answers. Making my choices wise ones that show results and forward movement in my life. If I am standing still, maybe it's cause I haven't taken the first step, even though I feel like I have been walking and walking, shoot running! It's just so easy to overlook at times. Yes the pages are unwritten but if I keep myself at center I would know what to write! (OK now I am pouting at myself) My choices would be guided by Wisdom and steered with LOVE. I have come along way and I forget that. I forget that I can be so worse off and I am not and while I might not have all I want, I know I will always get what I need and I have to be happy with just that. Human, be quiet! I am in charge. When I am not happy with where I am going I just have to remember to STOP and sit in the passengers seat while taking notes. Take accountability for my mistakes and move on trying not to commit the same mistakes. It is easier said then done but I won't stop and I can't stop!

Now that I am feeling a little more pumped I will leave you all with some inspiring images I found on my favorite search engine AKA: Google! It's amazing all the things you can find surfing the WEB. This helped me a lot as I am more of a visual person. Been repeating these messages to myself since this morning.

xoxoxo